Legal
Last updated: 10th June 2026
Community Guidelines
Belongi is built on one simple idea: that shared interests are the best foundation for new friendships. These guidelines exist to protect that — and everyone in it.
1) Be kind
Treat everyone with respect — in messages, in person, always.
Keep the tone friendly. Insults, harassment, hate speech, and bullying are not tolerated, full stop.
Don't pressure anyone for their time, attention, or personal details.
2) No creep behaviour. We mean it.
Belongi is not a dating app. It is not a place to pursue people who aren't interested, make anyone feel watched, or test how far you can push things before someone complains.
The following are strictly prohibited and will result in immediate account review or permanent ban:
- Sending repeated unwanted messages after someone has not responded or has asked you to stop
- Making sexual comments or initiating unsolicited flirting
- Following someone, engineering "accidental" run-ins, or showing up to a location you weren't invited to
- Asking for someone's contact details after they've said no — once is enough; asking again is a violation
- Sharing another user's personal information with anyone, inside or outside the app
- Attempting to identify, locate, or dig up information about another user beyond what they've chosen to share
If someone says no, seems uncomfortable, goes quiet, or stops engaging — stop. Immediately. There is no grey area here.
Violations of this section are treated as serious. We do not issue warnings for behaviour that makes another person feel unsafe.
3) Respect boundaries — before, during, and after the hangout
A "no" is a complete answer. It doesn't need an explanation, and it doesn't invite negotiation.
Do not touch people without their consent.
Do not push people toward plans, locations, or activities they didn't agree to when they signed up.
What happens at a hangout stays between the people who were there. Don't share what people said, did, or disclosed without their permission.
4) Keep it safe and legal
The following are prohibited on Belongi — no exceptions, no context that makes them okay:
- Threats or acts of violence
- Any illegal activity, including but not limited to fraud, drug dealing, or solicitation
- Scams or spam of any kind
- Self-promotion, business pitching, or recruiting other users
If it's illegal, it's also a Belongi violation. The two aren't separate.
5) Privacy matters
Do not share screenshots, messages, or personal details from conversations or hangouts without explicit permission from everyone involved.
Do not ask for someone's home address or workplace. If an address is needed for the hangout itself, share it only with accepted participants and only when the time is right.
You are not entitled to know anything about another user beyond what they've chosen to make visible on their profile.
6) Show up honestly
If you can't make it, cancel early — don't ghost.
Your profile should be accurate. Don't misrepresent who you are, what you're into, or why you're on the app.
Organisers: be upfront about cost, timing, and what the hangout actually involves. Bait-and-switch hangouts are a violation of these guidelines.
Terms Of Use
1) Who we are
Belongi is currently a hobby project created by Bárbara Araújo da Silva Borges to help people in Berlin meet through shared activities. It is not currently operated with commercial intent.
This may change. If Belongi grows, introduces paid features, or becomes commercially operated, we will update these Terms as described in section 10 below.
2) What Belongi is (and isn't)
Belongi helps users discover and coordinate small-group, real-life hangouts in Berlin. That's it.
Belongi does not organise, attend, supervise, guarantee, or take responsibility for any hangout, any organiser's decisions, any venue, or anything that happens during a meetup. Participation is entirely at your own discretion.
3) Eligibility
You must be at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into agreements in your jurisdiction to use Belongi. By creating an account, you confirm that you meet both requirements.
4) Accounts & profiles
You agree to:
- Provide accurate, truthful information when creating your account
- Keep your login credentials secure and not share access with others
- Not impersonate another person or misrepresent your identity in any way
Accounts found to be fraudulent or impersonating others will be permanently removed without warning.
5) Community rules
By using Belongi, you agree to follow the Community Guidelines above. These guidelines are part of these Terms — violating them is a violation of this agreement.
We may update the Guidelines from time to time to reflect new situations or risks. When we do, we will notify you as described in Section 10.
6) Safety, payments, and your responsibility
Your safety
You are responsible for your own personal safety and the decisions you make on and off the app.
Safety tips — please take these seriously:
- Tell a trusted person where you're going and when you expect to return.
- Arrange your own transport and do not share personal addresses unless genuinely necessary.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, leave.
- All hangouts on Belongi are required to take place in public spaces — you will never be asked to meet somewhere private through this app.
You can cancel or leave a hangout at any time, for any reason. If you feel unsafe because of another user's behaviour, report them via Contact.
Payments
Any costs associated with a hangout — tickets, class fees, entrance, food, drinks, or anything else — are strictly between you and the organiser or venue. Belongi is not involved in any financial transaction, does not process payments, and accepts no liability for payment disputes or losses.
7) Content and messaging
Chat on Belongi is for planning hangouts. That's its purpose.
Belongi may restrict or remove content that includes — but is not limited to — photos, spam, harassment, solicitation, self-promotion, or anything that violates these Terms or the Community Guidelines. There is no entitlement to send any particular type of message on Belongi.
8) Enforcement
We may warn, restrict, suspend, or permanently ban any account that violates these Terms or the Community Guidelines. Enforcement decisions are made at Belongi's sole discretion.
Serious violations may result in immediate, permanent bans without prior warning. Serious violations include stalking, harassment, intimidation, unsolicited sexual behaviour, threats, sharing private user information, fraud, or illegal activity.
We are not obligated to share the details of our investigation or the evidence considered when making an enforcement decision.
8a) Complaints about enforcement decisions
In line with applicable EU law, if your account has been restricted, suspended, or permanently banned, you have the right to submit one written complaint via Contact within 14 days of the decision.
Your complaint will be acknowledged and reviewed. We will send a written final response within 30 days.
Please note:
- Submitting a complaint does not automatically reverse or pause the enforcement action.
- Belongi is not obligated to disclose the specifics of its investigation or the identity of anyone who reported you.
- Our response following the complaint review is final. We will not enter into further correspondence on the matter after our final response has been sent.
If you remain dissatisfied, you may seek out-of-court dispute resolution through an applicable certified dispute resolution body under EU law, or pursue any legal remedies available to you under applicable law.
9) Data, privacy, and retention
Your use of Belongi is governed by our Privacy Policy, which covers what we collect, why, retention, and your rights.
We do not use any user data to train, fine-tune, or improve machine learning or AI models — ours or anyone else's.
Your email is used only for account operation — sign-in, verification, password reset, and when you contact us. We do not send newsletters, marketing, or notifications about changes to Belongi, these Terms, or our policies.
10) Changes to Belongi or these Terms
We may modify, suspend, or discontinue Belongi at any time, or update these Terms and Community Guidelines.
If changes are material — meaning they meaningfully affect your rights or how we process your data — we will notify you by email or via an in-app notice before the changes take effect, and we will require your acknowledgement before you can continue using Belongi.
For minor, non-material changes (such as wording clarifications that do not affect your rights), updates will be posted on our Updates and noted with a revised date on this page. Continued use of Belongi after such changes take effect constitutes acceptance.
Privacy
Belongi takes your privacy seriously. This policy explains what personal data we collect, why we collect it, how long we keep it, and what rights you have. We've written it in plain language on purpose — if something isn't clear, contact us.
1) Who is responsible for your data?
The data controller for personal data collected through Belongi is: Bárbara Araújo da Silva Borges (Contact)
Belongi is currently operated as a hobby project by an individual. If this changes, this section will be updated and you will be notified in line with Section 10 of the Terms of Use.
2) Where is your data stored?
Application data (accounts, profiles, hangouts, and messages) is stored on servers located within the European Union. Belongi uses Hetzner Online GmbH (Industriestraße 25, 91710 Gunzenhausen, Germany) as its hosting provider. Hetzner operates exclusively EU-based data centres and acts as a data processor on Belongi's behalf under a Data Processing Agreement.
Transactional emails (such as verification and password-reset links) are sent through Sweego, our email delivery provider. Sweego processes your email address and message content only to deliver these emails on our instructions, under a Data Processing Agreement.
3) What data we collect and why
3a) Account data+
What: Your email address, date of birth (to confirm you are at least 18), and a password stored only in hashed form — we never store your password as plain text.
Why: To create and manage your account — sign-in, age eligibility, verification, password reset, and support.
Legal basis: Performance of a contract (Article 6(1)(b) GDPR).
Kept for: As long as your account is active. If you delete your account, a one-way hash of your email is retained for 30 days to prevent immediate re-registration, then removed. Your live email address is removed from your account record when you delete it.
3b) Profile data+
What: Username, chosen preset avatar (illustration — not a photo of you), avatar background colour, gender, personality type, Berlin postcode, bio, and interest tags you select.
Why: To match you with relevant hangouts and other users, and to show a consistent identity in the app.
Legal basis: Performance of a contract (Article 6(1)(b) GDPR).
Kept for: As long as your account is active. Deleted when you delete your account.
3c) Hangout data+
What: Hangout details you create or apply to (title, description, location postcode, venue or address notes where provided, timing, and related filters).
Why: To provide the core hangout discovery and coordination service.
Legal basis: Performance of a contract (Article 6(1)(b) GDPR).
Kept for: We aim to delete hangout data after the hangout has ended, except where retention is needed for safety, abuse prevention, or legal reasons.
3d) Chat messages+
What: Text messages you send within hangout group chats.
Why: To enable hangout participants to coordinate plans.
Legal basis: Performance of a contract (Article 6(1)(b) GDPR).
Kept for: The chat closes automatically when the hangout ends. We aim to delete message data at the same time, except where retention is needed for safety or legal reasons.
3e) Reports and safety data+
What: Information you send us when you report a concern (for example by email), or information we process when investigating reports about you.
Why: To investigate potential violations of our Community Guidelines and Terms of Use, and to keep the community safe.
Legal basis: Legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) GDPR) — specifically, protecting users and enforcing platform rules.
Kept for: As long as needed to complete the investigation and any related enforcement action. Records involving serious violations (e.g. bans) may be retained longer.
3f) Banned account identifiers+
What: A one-way hash of your email address if your account is permanently banned.
Why: To enforce the ban and prevent re-registration with the same email.
Legal basis: Legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) GDPR).
Kept for: Until the ban is lifted or removal is required by applicable law.
3g) Communications with us+
What: Emails or messages you send us via Contact.
Why: To respond to your enquiry and keep a record of support interactions.
Legal basis: Legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) GDPR).
Kept for: As long as reasonably necessary to resolve the matter.
3h) Technical and security data+
What: IP address, browser type, request timestamps, and similar technical data generated when you use the app.
Why: To operate the service, prevent abuse, enforce rate limits, and protect against attacks.
Legal basis: Legitimate interests (Article 6(1)(f) GDPR) — keeping the service secure and available.
Kept for: Server and security logs are kept for a limited period and then deleted or anonymised, unless longer retention is needed to investigate abuse or comply with law.
4) What we do NOT collect
- No photos. Belongi does not allow profile photos or photo sharing. Avatars are preset illustrations only.
- No precise location tracking. We collect a Berlin postcode for hangout matching. Exact addresses may be entered by organisers and shared only with accepted participants — we do not track your device location.
- No payment data. Belongi does not process payments. Any costs associated with a hangout are handled directly between you and the organiser or venue.
- No marketing profiling. We do not use your data for advertising or sell it to third parties.
- No AI training. We do not use your data to train, fine-tune, or improve machine learning or AI models — ours or anyone else's.
5) Who we share your data with
We do not sell your data. We do not share it with third parties for marketing purposes.
We may share data only with the following processors and in these limited circumstances:
- Hetzner Online GmbH — hosting and database infrastructure in the EU, under a Data Processing Agreement.
- Sweego — transactional email delivery (e.g. verification and password reset), processing your email address and message content only on our instructions.
- Legal obligations — if we are required to disclose data by law, court order, or a competent authority.
- Safety — in exceptional cases where disclosure is necessary to prevent serious harm.
6) Your rights under GDPR
As a user in the EU, you have the following rights regarding your personal data:
- Access — you can request a copy of the personal data we hold about you.
- Rectification — you can ask us to correct inaccurate data.
- Erasure — you can ask us to delete your data ("right to be forgotten"), subject to legal retention requirements.
- Restriction — you can ask us to restrict processing of your data in certain circumstances.
- Portability — you can request your data in a structured, machine-readable format.
- Objection — you can object to processing based on legitimate interests.
- Withdraw consent — where processing is based on consent, you can withdraw it at any time.
To exercise any of these rights, contact us. We will respond within 30 days.
7) Right to lodge a complaint
If you believe we have handled your data unlawfully, you have the right to lodge a complaint with a data protection supervisory authority.
In Germany, the relevant authority is:
The Federal Commissioner for Data Protection and Freedom of Information (BfDI)
Graurheindorfer Str. 153, 53117 Bonn, Germany
www.bfdi.bund.de
You may also contact the supervisory authority in the EU member state where you live or work.
8) Changes to this policy
If we make material changes to this Privacy Policy — particularly changes that affect how we process your personal data — we will notify you by email or via an in-app notice before those changes take effect, as required by GDPR Article 13(3).
For minor, non-material changes, the updated policy will be posted on this page with a revised date. The latest version is always available at Updates.
Attributions
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Contact
For questions, safety concerns, support, privacy requests, or complaints about enforcement decisions:
We aim to respond within 30 days for data-related requests and enforcement complaints.